| Women are and will always be the smarter superior Sex! |
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Women are and will always be the smarter superior sex. In being smarter they calculate things better. For example when men cheat it is more spontaneous. Unlike women, men can't just go out any night of the week and get laid. Their opportunities in that regard are more limited, therefore when one arises they have to act on it usually right then or loose it forever. Any night a woman goes out she can get it if she really wants to. That's just a simple fact of life; women can have sex whenever they want. Men can't. As a
result men are more likely to screw up in getting caught. He can't pick
and choose when, where or with whom his opportunity will happen. He also
can't control as well as women his desire for sex. Men's desire is more
of a physical one; women's is more of an emotional one. Women's intimate
desires are more controllable than the physical testosterone calling.
When it calls and there's an opportunity, look out. Women on the other
hand can plan to get their strange sex. They will go out of town, plan a
shopping trip with the girls or something like that. Also when women
cheat their dealing with a strange guy who is more than likely happy
with just a one night stand and leaving it at that. When men cheat they
are dealing with a female who likely isn't so happy just to have a one
night'er. She may seek more and pursue him. This may eventually lead to
her making sure his wife finds out about it and causes him to get
caught. That's why it seems that men cheat more than women. Women
actually cheat just about as much as men, they just don't get caught as
often. Because they can control their opportunities and desires more,
they are better able to pick and choose their time, place and person.
That combination will be such that will ensure that they don't get
caught. Men on the other hand have to take it when its there, regardless
of the risk, therefore they get caught more. So guys, look out when your
woman goes away. I'm not saying that they cheat whenever they go away;
I'm saying that if they are looking to cheat, they will do it when they
go away. Women do aspire to the "If no one knows about it, it didn't
happen" mindset. Regardless of what they do, if no one knows about it or
they didn't get caught, it didn't happen and they will go to their death
claiming it didn't happen. Men periodically admit wrong doings;
sometimes their conscience makes them admit to things even if their
spouse did not know of them. Females would never allow their conscience
to get to them that way. They would never feel guilty enough to admit to
anything that wasn't known, not unless it worked to her advantage to do
so. The only other reason she would spill is if she was convinced there
was a chance that something about what she did will get back to her
spouse and in that case she will want to put her version of events
forward first. Of coarse her version won't be anything close to the
truth but will be designed to provide her deniability if he hears from
someone else later. Her selfish desire to maintain her purity is much
stronger than their conscience would ever be. They would never be that
basic or simple to just give something like that to their spouse,
another indicator of their self-righteousness. Although most of the time
men and women have reasons to cheat, men a lot of times just need some
"strange". Men's biological urges and instincts, which are ingrained in
his make up, order him to bed as many women as he can. Although he can
curtail that instinct for a while when he is in a happy relationship,
eventually he will need some "strange". Monogamy is a scary word for
men. Just about as scary as commitment. Probably one of the things men
fear the most about commitment is monogamy. They don't ever want to
think that they will only be able to bed one women for the rest of his
life. That is extremely frightening to most men. Sometimes when men
cheat there really is no explainable cause. It's just that he needed and
wanted some "strange". Men don't need the intimacy that women do. When
women are finished having sex they crave intimacy then more than even.
They want to feel your presence and cuddle, further enjoying the
intimate experience they just had. That's the estrogen and instinctual
part of women. Men on the other hand can't get the hell out fast enough
when they are finished. That's the testosterone instinctual side of men.
They want out and go home or to sleep. The last thing they want is to
further prolong the experience and cuddle. They want to rest and prepare
for the next female. To a man the definition of "eternity" is from the
time he finished 'til the time you get home. That's frigging eternity.
Now, I will acknowledge that females also desire "strange" periodically
but it's different with them. They need to know they're attractive to
another man. They periodically want to know that a strange guy is trying
to seduce her. That's he's attracted to her and the whole seduction,
flirtation, emotionally side of it is what she seeks. Not so much the
dive in and do it with strange. Not that females will not ultimately do
it, they will, however with guys its all about the diving in and doing
it, with females its more about the attention, flirting and just knowing
that a guy wants to screw her and finds her attractive. That's the part
of strange women need periodically. The fact is that as birds can't
fight their instinct to fly out of their nest when its time, like geese
can't stop flying south in the winter, like bears can't refuse to
hibernate over winter, men can not fight their natural, biological,
instinctual urges either. When the urge is there they must act on it.
Unfortunately for women, that urge is to go and get some "strange" once
in a while. Nothing she can do will change that. No matter how hot she
is and how sexy she dresses, to her man she is not "strange". When he
needs strange, his mate will not do. Plain and simple. Can't fight
nature ladies.
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