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If you are like me when my husband asked me to marry him he had the ring but we had to find out how to plan the Honeymoon. It was a night like any other night, the only thing different was that we where to be married in two weeks. I have been talking with him about the honeymoon and getting know where. You know the same thing every time I wanted to talk about where we should go? And the same answers: “It is not where we go on the honeymoon, but how we spend the rest of our life together.” Blah Blah Blah!!!! He should have just said we should stay at Motel 8 in Baise and see tomatoes rote. Than something happen we started talking and he “asked me what is the honeymoon for?” So we looked up the word on the internet and we found this. Honeymoon is a private and intimate time for the newly wed couple. It is a special time for the new marriage to set down its roots….the only vacation you will ever take that has such meaning and significance to the most important relationship of your life. It is a time to shut out the world for a while, to look only at each other and to know that if each other is all you ever have, it will be all that we will ever need. And so it started we looked up the explanations for honeymoon and the tradition. The Northern European history describes it as the abduction for a bride from the neighboring village. It was imperative, that the abductor, who is husband to be, take his bride to be into hiding for period of time. His friends assured his and her safe keeping and kept their whereabouts unknown. Once the bride’s family gave up their search, the bridegroom returns to his people. This folkloric explanation presumably is the origin of today’s “honeymoon”, for its original meaning meant “hiding”. In Irish, the word honey is from “meala”. The word for honeymoon is “mi na meala”, meaning the month of honey” and refers to how the bride and groom would spend that period of time. Iris monks first produced the fermented honey brew called mead for mead for medicinal purposes; then found it could make well people feel even better. Following the wedding a sufficient amount for mead was given to bride and groom along with special goblets, so they could share the unique brew for one full moon after the wedding—and thus the term honeymoon was coined. It was believed that this delicate yet potent drink was the best way to ensure a good beginning for a new marriage and it was also believe to endow powers of virility and fertility. So he stated that he now understould that a honeymoon is not just getting away from people and not just a vacation. It helps in establishing the new marriage. Honeymoon is casting off of your old life and the beginning of the new one. A honeymoon literally means going away, symbolically and physically, from everybody one knows to place where no one knows them and where the newly wed could stay together and know more about each other and establish long lasting bond. A wedding is to bring two people together physically but honeymoon confirms it and sets the tone fro how intimate and passionate the rest of years together will be. After this he was open for any place Maui, Florida, where every we could start to get to know each other better. This is from ACHEAPHONEYMOON.info – Affordable Honeymoon Vacation Packages in the some of the World’s greatest Luxury Resorts areas, Hotels and Resort Deals. Bookmark this site
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