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The concept of nice keeps on changing from time to time. It is really worth mentioning that nice guys just like the sexy gals have more demand in reality still, there is no hard and fast rule regarding this pre-conception. Making friendship or to end-up-with sexual action with the person from the opposite sex does not only depend upon the physical beauty or good behavior, but also relies largely on mental smartness and extreme urge for attaining your desired one. From our common experience, we can say
that a handsome guy can attract a young girl through his bright
complexion, stylish hair, sharp eyes, muscular structure and several
other features. Adding to all these, they do possess extra
qualifications like smartness at the hour of requirement, ability to
crack jokes at certain points to ward off monotony of life, sensuousness
and most importantly, faithfulness in the core of hearts. To evaluate
whether a nice guy can end up making friendship or having sex, we need
to segregate boys into two compartments: the first one who can
successfully hook up and other one who can‘t. It would be wrong if we
come into the conclusion right now that a nice guy can always finish at
last, it is definitely not true; on the other hand, if we mention that
nice guy can not succeed at all, we are creating a misconception about
the so called nice guys. So, to make it simple, there is no fixed rule,
which can be applied to determine whether a nice guy comes at the end of
the race. Still, we have an option wide open to discuss about the
features that finishes at last. There is no denying the fact that individual opinion cannot be taken
granted as general; but to make a general opinion, fragmented
individualized opinion have to be considered as a whole. Consider a
blue-eyed boy with silky and spiky hair; when he opens his clothes, a
stout feature comes out that reflects sinewy biceps and bony chest.
Soothing smile added with mesmerizing stare compels every second person
to fall in love if these features are tinged with aesthetic dressing
combination, they would become simply the heartthrob of any sexy girl.
Style of expressing something, intellectuality and other mannerisms also
earn attention of the loved ones. Style of walking, way of communication
and last but not the least, his eagerness to make friendship with
opposite sex is the criteria for coming up with flying colors in the
game of dating. Think of a boy with all the abovementioned features do
you think he would be able to capture attention of a girl at the first
appearance? Probably YES and
probably No!!! It may seem ridiculous, but is true to the deepest sense
of the term. Actually, the power of catching attention of any new person
does not only depend on the outward features, but also on the innate
power. It is seen quite often that a man with ordinary looks can mould
mind of a young girl through his power of communication, affability,
openness and more. It is not that nice but shy guys will always come at
the last in the race. But, it is happening to most of the nice guys they
meet women, but their extrovert friends take the cake away while they
remain standing at the corner on their own, wondering why the girls
dont look at me when they pass by?
It is quite simple really men are generally physically stronger
than women and usually performs the job of earning money for the rest of
the family. A smart and ebullient guy ooze confidence like no nice shy
guy does and that attract the women to go for making love with them.
Women get attracted to opposite sex due to cockyness
and dominating nature and then
breaks up for the same reason and then repeats this cycle with another
man.
The thing is that women rarely comes out of their cocoon and advances
for making love; but men have to take the initiative just like the
matchstick is essential for creating great fire. This is why nice shy
guy come last in the event of making love. So, nice-guys will have to
come forward leaving behind the tears of self-loathing and getting over
their shyness. They are required to do something on their own. Prepare
yourself for the right time and place, flash killing glances when any
young girl stares at you and do not hesitate to interact with her. Keep
your relationship growing through proper communication, know her likes
and dislikes, and propose to carry your association for long. You can
get two answers in turn “ she might have fallen in love or may show
unwillingness to continue. If she agrees with your proposal, carry on
making love and enjoy the rest of your life; but if she denies your
proposal, try your luck for another girl. Don’t be disheartened at all!
It will definitely work for you by getting turned down once in a while.
Your key phrase should be like this "getting hurt is much better than
regretting for not taking any action on my own."
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